September 2009

Adult Diaper

Adult Diaper

Diapers are primarily worn by children who are not yet potty trained or suffer from bedwetting. However, they can also be used by adults who suffer from incontinence or in certain circumstances where access to a toilet is unavailable. These can include the elderly, those with a physical or mental disability, and people working in extreme conditions such as astronauts. Diapers are usually worn out of necessity rather than choice, although there are exceptions; people such as infantilists and diaper fetishists wear diapers recreationally for comfort, emotional fulfillment, or sexual gratification.

The problem of clothing infants not yet potty trained is as old as human history. In some countries with warmer climates, babies were kept naked and mothers tried to anticipate their bowel movements so as to avoid mess near their living areas. This method is known as elimination communication and is still used today in some cultures.

TLC's 'Jon & Kate' is soon to be 'Kate Plus Eight'

NEW YORK – "Jon & Kate Plus 8" will soon be simply "Kate Plus Eight." That's the word from the TLC network, who announced Tuesday that its hit reality show is adapting to changes in the Gosselin household, which has been disrupted by the split up of Kate and Jon.
The renamed "Kate Plus Eight," which begins Nov. 2, will continue to chronicle the lives of the Gosselin kids (5-year-old sextuplets and 8-year-old twins) but will also focus on Kate's role as a single mother.
"It's not a huge shift, but it's reflective of where the show was already going," said Eileen O'Neill, TLC's president and general manager.
"Jon's going to be involved in the show," she said, adding that he will be seen less often than before. TLC retains an exclusive arrangement with him, as well as the rest of the family, O'Neill said.
The couple made their separation official on a "Jon & Kate" episode that aired in June and was seen by 10.6 million viewers.
The rupture came after weeks of tabloid reports of marital strains and infidelities, which both spouses denied. On the show, the parental co-stars barely spoke to each other.
Since then, media coverage of the squabbling exes has continued full-bore, and both Jon and Kate have made separate he-said-she-said talk-show rounds. They are in divorce proceedings.
It's quite a change since the series clicked with viewers two years ago for its heartwarming look at the challenges of raising eight young children.
Going forward, O'Neill said, "We hope for the sake of the family that things are more manageable. I don't think anyone asked for that amount of attention."
She spoke hopefully of a bright future for the series and dismissed a report circulating Tuesday that Kate Gosselin had posted a tweet that this season might be the last: Kate doesn't have a Twitter account, O'Neill said.
Although the audience for recent "Jon & Kate" airings has dropped below two million viewers, the current season has averaged a robust 3.2 million (even omitting its two record-setting "event" episodes), which represents an increase of 300,000 viewers over last season.
Discussions are under way with Kate Gosselin for another series that might debut in 2010, O'Neill said.
"I think there's an opportunity for Kate beyond her role as a supermom to explore her other interests," O'Neill said.
Meanwhile, with reality-based programming that also includes "Little People, Big World," "What Not to Wear" and "LA Ink," the network is boasting a year of consecutive month-to-month audience gains.
"We're not a one-hit wonder," O'Neill said.
The series airs Mondays at 9 p.m. EDT.
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NJ jurors quizzed on willingness to watch sex tape

MAYS LANDING, N.J. – Potential jurors in a video blackmail case involving an Atlantic City councilman and his political rivals are being asked if they are willing to watch a sex tape as part of the evidence.
Ronald Callaway, his brother David, and Floyd Tally are charged with luring Councilman Eugene Robinson to a motel, secretly taping him having sex with a prostitute and trying to blackmail him.
Jury selection began Tuesday and is expected to last two days.
The Callaways' brother, former Council President Craig Callaway, pleaded guilty to masterminding the scheme before beginning an unrelated prison term for bribery.
Robinson, a Baptist minister, has said the sex was consensual and the money he gave the woman was to buy sodas.

Warner, YouTube confirm music video deal

NEW YORK (Reuters) –
Warner Music Group and Google Inc's YouTube said on Tuesday they have reached a deal which will see music videos from artists such as Madonna and Green Day once again feature on the popular website.

Though financial terms of the deal were not disclosed, executives said Warner Music would receive the majority of advertising revenue generated around the music clips.

"It sets us up for a sustainable partnership going forward by sharing revenues, where the vast majority of the revenues will be going to Warner Music associated with advertising when consumers watch or listen to the content on YouTube," said Chris Maxcy, head of Music partnerships at YouTube on a conference call.

Warner, the world's third largest music company, will have the ability to have a number of different YouTube channels representing artists, so will likely also sell against those various channels. Vivendi's Universal Music, the No. 1 music company, currently has the most popular channel on YouTube.

Music videos from Warner's acts were removed from the site after licensing agreement talks broke down last December over financial terms.

Music companies have long argued that popular social networking and online video sites should pay more to license music or music videos.

But such sites still generate small amounts of advertising revenue relative to their huge popularity and have pushed back against the labels in fraught negotiations.

The deal with Warner Music means YouTube will now feature videos from all the major music companies including Universal Music Group, Sony Music Entertainment and EMI Music.

(Reporting by Paul Thomasch and Yinka Adegoke)

Girls Christening Gowns

Girls Christening Gowns

Someone who has been baptized as an adult will often be buried in their baptismal robe, if they have not advanced to some higher ministry within the church.

The Anglican church grew from its mother the Church of England and includes the Episcopal Church in the United States. It views itself as the 'unbroken continuation of the early apostolic and later medieval' "universal church", rather than as a 'new formation'. Many of the early traditions are therefore the same as the Roman Catholic and the family heirloom long white gown is still used by many families. The modern church allows for much diversity, but usually the clothing is still white for the infant or young child.

UK's Brown makes pitch to revive electoral hopes

BRIGHTON, England – British Prime Minister Gordon Brown vowed to restore voters' faith in government and curb the excesses of the financial markets in a major speech Tuesday aimed at staving off an expected defeat at the next national election
Brown, who must go to the polls by June, sketched out a manifesto for the looming election with a blizzard of populist ideas in an address to an annual rally of his governing Labour Party — including plans to allow Britons to recall lawmakers who breach rules.
Labour has trailed behind the main opposition Conservative Party in opinion polls for more than a year and appears certain to lose power for the first time since 1997 at an election likely to be held in May.
The leader, whose conference slogan is "Operation Fightback," has pinned his hopes of a comeback on plans to curb youth crime, improve treatment for cancer sufferers and hold a referendum on major changes to Britain's electoral system.
"We can build a new economy which tames the old excesses. We can meet and master the challenge of an aging society with a national care service, we can in this generation be the first to beat cancer, we can transform our politics," Brown told delegates gathered in the southern England seaside resort of Brighton.
In a final conference speech before Britain's next election, the 58-year-old Scot sought to inspire activists with well received plans to halt the introduction of unpopular national identity cards, and to increase state pension payments.
Brown said that, following a scandal over lawmakers' excessive expense claims, communities would have the power to recall and sack errant legislators. He also pledged a referendum on changing how Britain elects its lawmakers.
Despite praise overseas for his handling of the financial crisis, Brown's domestic standing has been dented in recent weeks. Critics have taken aim at his meekness in the face of U.S. anger at the release of the Lockerbie bomber from a Scottish jail, and his reluctance to quickly acknowledge the necessity of cuts to public spending to reduce Britain's spiraling government debts.
Even Brown's key Cabinet ally, the influential business secretary Peter Mandelson, said the leader must show more "razzmatazz," to entice voters disillusioned with his leadership.
An Ipsos MORI poll published Tuesday put Brown's Labour in third place for the first time since 1982 — behind both the opposition Conservatives and Liberal Democrats.
The Conservatives, who are widely expected to win power at the next election, had 36 percent, the Liberal Democrats had 25 percent and Brown's Labour had 24 percent. Ipsos MORI interviewed 1,003 people by telephone between Sept. 25-27, no margin of error was given, but in samples of a similar size it is plus or minus 3 percentage points.

NATO head tells Obama allies will stay in Afghanistan

WASHINGTON (Reuters) –
NATO chief Anders Fogh Rasmussen assured U.S. President Barack Obama on Tuesday the alliance would remain in Afghanistan as long as it took to finish its mission.

"Our operation in Afghanistan is not America's responsibility or burden alone: it is and it will remain a team effort," the former Danish prime minister told reporters during a visit with Obama at the White House.

Rasmussen said he agreed with Obama's approach of "strategy first, then resources."

"This alliance will stand united and we will stay in Afghanistan as long as it takes to finish our job," he added.

Obama, who is meeting top advisers about Afghanistan on Tuesday and Wednesday, has said he will not decide on sending further U.S. troops for Afghanistan until after a broad review of strategy. He did not discuss that process during their brief appearance before reporters.

The top U.S. and NATO commander in Afghanistan, Gen. Stanley McChrystal, has warned the Afghan effort would likely result in failure without a "significant change in strategy", which would also involve bringing in more troops.

He is expected to seek 30,000 to 40,000 combat troops and trainers, according to defense and congressional officials.

(Reporting by Jeff Mason; Editing by Simon Denyer)

New Niffenegger novel set in Victorian Valhalla

LONDON – West of Karl Marx and just up the path from Charles Dickens' widow and daughter stands author Audrey Niffenegger, deep in the heart of London's Highgate Cemetery, the setting for her new novel, "Her Fearful Symmetry."
Niffenegger — who was propelled to literary stardom by her best-selling novel "Time Traveler's Wife" — is telling a group of tourists about one of the most colorful characters to end up in the Victorian burial ground, the menagerist George Wombwell, who died in 1850 and now lies in a tomb underneath a giant stone lion.
Niffenegger spent years researching the fabled London cemetery for her book — the final resting place for such luminaries as novelist George Eliot, actor Ralph Richardson, physicist Michael Faraday and poet Christina Rossetti, as well as Marx and a handful of Dickenses.
Now she's so familiar with it that she can guide tourists around with professional ease.
The labyrinth of Egyptian sepulchers, Victorian mausoleums, gravestones and Gothic tombs, perched on a hill above the smoke and filth of London, seems the perfect setting for a ghost story about a woman who dies of cancer and returns to haunt her lover and twin nieces.
But Niffenegger, who has developed a cult following for her lushly romantic tales of love, loss and obsession, originally had a less storied place in mind — a huge graveyard outside her hometown Chicago called Graceland.
"At the time I remember thinking: Graceland's fantastic, but if you're going to have a cemetery what's the great cemetery? And that would be Highgate," she said, recalling the days when the idea for the novel first came to her in 2002.
"I was always interested in the Victorian and Edwardian period, and Highgate is such a beautifully concentrated and unusual Victorian place."
The mythical pull of Highgate — where the spirits of the Victorian age seem to whisper around every corner — lies at the heart of "Her Fearful Symmetry." The book begins with the death of Elspeth Noblin at the age of 44, and the subsequent arrival of her American identical nieces to her apartment.
Noblin writes on her deathbed: "A bad thing about dying is that I've started to feel as though I'm being erased. Another bad thing is that I won't get to find out what happens next."
But Elspeth — who also has an identical twin sister — does get to find out: Her spirit remains in the apartment, which borders the cemetery, hiding in the drawer of a desk, and gradually learns how to haunt.
"The novel is about grief, about couples coming together, coming undone, or who seem to be together but will later come undone ... and there are other couples who are reforming, so it's kind of an exercise in symmetry, doubling, twinning, opposites and dark sides," said the 46-year-old Niffenegger, unmistakable in her flowing red hair, ghostly pallor and brainy glasses.
She said many of the cameos in the novel are sewn from the years she spent researching the cemetery, which opened in 1839, and even volunteering there as a tour guide.
Two of those characters are based on the former chair of the charity that looks after the grounds, Jean Pateman, 88, and her husband, John.
On her tours — as in her book — Niffenegger, takes visitors into the gothic wilderness beyond: tombs, graves, catacombs, and mausoleums, many topped by statues of angels.
To the south of this day's tourist group, at the end of a path that weaves fairytale-like through rain-battered graves, unkempt shrubbery, wild flowers and trees, is the tomb of the pre-Raphaelite Rossetti — whose melancholy verses about love and regret — hold particular resonance for Niffenegger.
"What's great about (Highgate) is it really is like a narrative. It sort of unfolds and you can't see very far ahead so you stop them periodically and let them look around and talk about whatever it is that you are standing in front of."
Niffenegger isn't alone among today's premier novelists to have been inspired by Highgate. Tracy Chevalier — author of "The Girl with the Pearl Earring" — set her 'Falling Angels" in the cemetery and calls it "the perfect setting" for a novel.

"Maybe writers are drawn to it because it provides a complete atmosphere — gothic, overgrown, steeped in death — that you don't have to make up. You can just go there and describe what you see," she said in an email interview.

"You can walk around and be quite alone and hidden. I think novelists like secret places, because we are secretive ourselves."

In "Her Fearful Symmetry," Niffenegger once again returns to her favorite themes of love, loss, and identity.

"They seem to run all through my art, not just these last two books but the artwork that I've worked on for the past 27 years, so it seems to be somehow intrinsic to what I think about. I'm not saying that I could never write about anything else, but they seem to get in there without any great effort on my behalf."

Niffenegger, also a successful artist and author of two acclaimed graphic novels, won't comment on media reports that she signed a US$4.5 million publishing deal for the new book.

She is now working on her third novel. Set in Chicago, it's about a 9-year-old girl with hypertrychosis — excessive body hair — and has the working title "The Chinchilla Girl in Exile."

She is also planning a show at her Chicago gallery a year from now — "and somehow while I'm running around I have to make some drawings," she says.

"Her Fearful Symmetry" publisher Random House declined to disclose the novel's print run.

While "The Time Traveler's Wife" has its soundtrack set firmly in the 1980s British and U.S. punk and rock scene, "Her Fearful Symmetry" has traveled a bit further back in time for its opening quote, from the Beatles song "She Said She Said."

"I originally wanted to use a lyric from "Superstition" by Stevie Wonder, but ended up using just the one Beatles' lyric from the album "Revolver," she explains.

Later, sitting in a local rustic pub a short walk from the cemetery, Niffenegger bursts into the song:

"She said, I know what it's like to be dead ... I know what it is to be sad. And she's just making me feel like I've never been born," she sings.

"It would be terrible spoiler for me to tell you why that's an apt quote," she adds with a twinkle in her eye.

Mariah Carey finds freedom being 'imperfect'

NEW YORK – Lee Daniels had so much faith in Mariah Carey's acting that when the director's first choice to play a dowdy, no-nonsense social worker — Oscar-winner Helen Mirren — backed out, he quickly asked Carey to step in.
But Daniels was well aware that in hiring Mariah Carey, the actress, he was also likely to get Mariah Carey, the diva — a high-maintenance sideshow that would include an entourage of makeup artists, assistants, publicists and other hangers-on, running counter to the energy he wanted the superstar to exude in his searing drama "Precious."
So, as he gave her the role, he also issued a warning: Leave the diva act at home.
"If you come with a strip of makeup on," he recalls telling her, "I will have a backup (actress)."
"I knew that she would be out of her safety zone, and I knew that there would be no one for her to rely on, to say, 'Get me this, get me that,'" he said. "I could see in her eyes_ 'What is Lee doing to me?' But I knew that she trusted me."
By putting her faith in Daniels, Carey — who famously flopped in her movie debut "Glitter" in 2001 — may have finally proven to critics that formidable talent extends to more than just her voice. She's garnered high praise for her turn in the film, which is being released nationwide on Nov. 6.
But more importantly for Carey, the role helped her shed some of the insecurities that not only hindered her in acting, but in her real life.
"That was such a freeing experience for me," Carey says during a recent interview. "By making me look so bad he brought out the ability to never be self-conscious again, and that was a gift that he gave me."
After years of striving to reach an ideal — from her personal life to her music career — Carey, 39, is embracing life's imperfections, an attitude summed up by the title of her latest album, "Memoirs of an Imperfect Angel."
Grammy-winning producer Tricky, responsible for hits like Rihanna's "Umbrella," was one of the main writers and producers of the "Memoirs of an Imperfect," along with The-Dream. Tricky says Carey is "is kind of letting people know, I'm not this perfect angel.
"She has sexual songs and stuff like that that allude to stuff that she's never really touched on before."
But Carey herself points to a something else that shows her new outlook — the fact that she's dropped of one of her most infamous diva demands, that she only be photographed on her right side.
"I don't feel like, 'Oh, I have to be on this side, or I have to be on this side — I really had specific things that someone told me when I was 19 starting in the business and I listened to them. ... I don't care anymore," she says, laughing.
"Sometimes I like that side — and Nick likes that side better anyway," she adds.
Nick, of course, is her husband of almost a year and a half — the actor and producer Nick Cannon. The pair married after dating a little over a month: It was a union few took seriously at first.
That's in part because of the 12-year age gap between them (Cannon is 27), but also because they seemed to come from two different worlds. Cannon was seen as a teen star thanks to his Nickelodeon vehicles; Carey is a Grammy-winning superstar and one of the industry's most profitable artists.
"I didn't know what to make of the marriage," said Daniels, a good friend of Carey's, though now he proclaims their bond to be genuine.
"You see her in a place of complete and utter bliss. I want to throw up; I roll my eyes," he says, laughing, before adding with a serious note: "I've seen a changed woman in front of my eyes — you see what love does to someone."

Sitting on a couch while wearing snakeskin Gucci stilettos and sporting curly locks reminiscent of her "Vision of Love" days, Carey talks about how Cannon has changed her life, as he naps in the bed behind her.

"Nick is just a really supportive, very unique man who no matter what the differences are between us, he has been just such, like, a helping hand for me as a human being and a husband," she says. "I feel like I'm not by myself anymore, and no matter who I was with I always felt alone."

Carey took her union to Cannon so seriously that she lowered her profile right after they got married, even though she had just started to promote "EMC2," the follow-up to her multiplatinum, Grammy-winning triumph "The Emancipation of Mimi."

While "EMC2" had the hit "Touch My Body," it seemed to fade after she wed.

"I took a slight break because we just wanted to be together," she says. "(With) 'Mimi,' that's all I was focused on.'"

Carey says today, "everything is different, I'm in a different place in my life. I really enjoyed being in the studio and coming home and playing songs for Nick and talking about them.

"We have a lot of conversations about music and just listening and dissecting the songs. It's sort of a new thing for me so I really, really enjoyed it."

Cannon may have had input on the album, but he's nowhere on the credits. While they have no musical project in the works, there's been rampant speculation that there might be another Carey-Cannon production in the making — a baby.

On those rumors, Carey says coyly: "Well, we enjoy practicing."

But after a good laugh, she says now would "not be the right time" because of the pair's busy lives.

As far as working on something else together, like a movie, Carey doesn't rule it out.

"We have to make sure the movie was a stone winner otherwise they would kill us," Carey says.

"It'd have to be a comedy," interjects Cannon.

"It'd definitely have to be — our life is a comedy anyway," she says, as they laugh together.

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Phone off? Hugh Jackman stops Broadway show for ringing

NEW YORK (Reuters) –
Theatergoers won't forget to turn their cell phones off again, after Australian actor Hugh Jackman stopped a Broadway show to ask one audience member to stop a phone from ringing.

"You want to get that?" Jackman said in character, after the ringing interrupted a tense moment in a preview performance of "A Steady Rain" last week. The show officially opens on Tuesday with Daniel Craig starring opposite Jackman.

"Grab your phone, it doesn't matter," said Jackman as the ringing continues.

"Come on, just turn it off ... we can wait. Just get the phone," Jackman continues to applause from the audience.

"Don't be embarrassed. Just grab it," he adds.

An amateur video of the incident was posted on video sharing website YouTube on Monday, and it seemed clear that the audience member did not want to reach for the phone at risk of being embarrassed. After several rings, it stopped.

"A Steady Rain," by playwright Keith Huff, is a drama about two Chicago policemen and their differing accounts of a few days that changed their lives with both Jackman and Craig adopting Chicago accents for their characters.

Early reviews of the play, which is scheduled to run until December 6, have praised the two actors, with a BBC review saying the pair had a "natural rapport and shared the spotlight," meeting all audience expectations.

Jackman, 40, best known as the superhero Wolverine in the "X-Men" movies, is returning to Broadway after his hit 2004 Tony-award winning role in the musical "The Boy from Oz."

Jackman and 41-year-old Craig are among a list of high profile film stars appearing on Broadway this year, which includes Geoffrey Rush, Catherine Zeta Jones, Sienna Miller, and Jude Law.

(Writing by Belinda Goldsmith, Editing by Bob Tourtellotte)